Selasa, 05 November 2013
How to Approach Women on the Street
You are on your way to the grocery store and suddenly, you see there's a group of beautiful women walking over there, crossing the street. They are very nicely dressed in their tops, skirts and jeans (yes, in their normal dresses) and they are looking just AWESOME. Your heart begins to leap high and you feel the rush from your feet. What should you do now? You want to talk with them. In fact, you are staring at them. Sometimes you are turning your head away just to peer at them by the side of your eye. They are definitely 9's and 10's. Damn!
"Is your hair correct? You have cut it short yesterday itself"
"Is your t-shirt wrinkled?"
"Are you interested?" (Yes, some people actually force themselves to believe that they don't want it)
"I am busy. I don't have time" (logically thinking, you have loads of time in your hand. You are just going to the grocery store)
And so many excuses that you can come up with literally...But do they work? If you are like me, you still feel the frustration and start cursing yourself when you can't approach women on the street.
The Truth You Want to Know
Okay, here's a fact. Even I feel like this. I don't feel like I am not up to their expectations nowadays. But I feel like I don't want it. Yes, I use the excuse of complacency. I have enough of girls in my life. So, I don't approach women. Or rather, I stop myself from approaching women.
But, the truth is absolutely different.
If you don't show up to her, she doesn't notice you. And if she doesn't know you are there, there's no chance to game her. And then again, when you go up to her, you cannot hope to create attraction. When you approach women on the street or anywhere, you must know that it's either going to hit or miss. You cannot do anything that creates attraction. That's a wrong mindset. You just go there and say Hi. That's it. If she feels she wants to know you, that is enough. If she doesn't want to, nothing will make her do so and if there is something that will work, it will take some time.
You don't have so much time while you approach women on the street.
Solution That Will Work
Here are a few things that you can do to make sure that you have a higher chance of success while you approach women on the street.
Work on yourself. Improve yourself. Never stop! Get a job, go to the gym, eat healthy, and live your life. Create a self-sufficient lifestyle for yourself. Your focus should always be YOU.
Don't think too much. When you see the woman, just walk calmly up to her and say Hi. You don't need to do anything else. Actually if you try hard, you are going to lose it. Your value is maintained when you DON'T try at all.
Rejection is a part of the game. And when you are cold approaching on the street, you will find a much lower percentage of success. Trust me on that. But that's not your problem. That's her problem. I know women who deject men who approach men just because they are NERVOUS.